Regret Getting Pregnant? You Have Options
Whether it’s late in your pregnancy or you’ve just found out you’re pregnant and have doubts about parenting, you’re not alone. We know that there are a lot of thoughts and feelings going through your head, with your top priority being giving your baby a life full of love and opportunity.
No matter how far along you are in your pregnancy, you will always have options that can lead to a brighter future for yourself and your baby. What you’re feeling is common and shows that you want nothing but the best for your baby.
Whatever choice you make, know that we’re here for you and will be by your side making sure you’re comfortable and confident every step of the way.
If you regret getting pregnant in Iowa and want to create a brighter future for yourself and your baby, fill out our form or call us at 1-800-ADOPTION.
I Regret Getting Pregnant, What Are My Options?
If you're pregnant and find yourself regretting it, you're not alone. Whether your pregnancy was planned or unplanned, you might be struggling with how to cope. We understand that you're probably feeling stressed, and you must take the time to evaluate whether this stress is temporary or if you genuinely feel like parenting may not be the right choice for you anymore.
If parenting isn’t an option for you anymore, know that we will always be by your side to help you understand which steps to take next. Our specialists can help you make a decision that makes sense for you and your situation.
Adoption
Adoption can help you take back control of your life when you’re feeling pregnancy regret. Choosing adoption means giving your child the opportunity to grow up in a loving and supportive environment, even if you're not ready to parent.
The best part is you wouldn’t have to say goodbye to your baby. You can watch them grow and thrive in an environment that’s handpicked by you.
With adoption, you can:
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Provide your baby with a loving home: By placing your baby for adoption, you're ensuring that they will be raised in a stable and caring family.
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Create a brighter future for yourself and your baby: Adoption can provide your child with opportunities and resources that you may not be able to provide at this time.
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Receive financial assistance: Adoption is 100% free of cost, and you may even be eligible to receive financial assistance to cover a portion of your living expenses and bills during your pregnancy.
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Take back control of your life to create the future you deserve: When you choose adoption, you can move forward with your life knowing that your baby will be loved and cherished by a family of your choosing.
To learn more about choosing adoption when you regret getting pregnant, contact us today to speak with an adoption specialist.
Abortion
Abortion is another option available to you if you're not ready to become a parent. It's essential to consider various factors before making this decision, including:
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Whether it’s Accessible in Your State: Abortion laws and access vary by state, so it's crucial to research whether abortion services are available and accessible in your area.
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Financial Considerations: Cost can be a significant factor when considering abortion. Determine if you can afford the procedure and associated expenses, such as transportation and accommodations if needed.
Is It Normal to Regret Getting Pregnant?
It’s completely normal to have second thoughts and even regret about pregnancy, whether it was intentional or not. Life is complex, circumstances change and emotions can be unpredictable. Your feelings are valid, and you shouldn’t feel guilty for experiencing them.
Remember that you have options. Take the time to reflect on whether this feeling is temporary or something deeper. Seek support from loved ones, a counselor or a healthcare professional.
Ultimately, you have the right to make the best decision for yourself, whether that means continuing the pregnancy or considering other paths. Trust your instincts and know that you’re not alone. You can call our free, 24/7 options counseling hotline. Even if you’re not sure about adoption, we can listen to your situation, talk you through your feelings and help you evaluate your options.
I Regret Having a Baby, What Can I Do?
Whether you’ve just had your baby or have been parenting for months, know that you can always choose adoption to give your baby the life you’ve always envisioned for them. We know that you want nothing but the best for your baby. With adoption, you can find a family who’s ready to parent and provide your baby with a life filled with unconditional love.
Click here to start your search for the perfect family.
Many birth parents who choose adoption say that although it was difficult to go down this path, they’ll never regret giving their baby the life they deserve.
“It’s very rough in the beginning but it does get better. It takes you a while to realize that what you did was the best thing and, regardless of the situation that put you there, there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Your ultimate decision was to place him in a family that would love him unconditionally, love him like he was their biological child.” – Sara, birth mother.
Regardless of which option you choose, we’ll always be here to help you make the best decision for your unique situation. You're not alone, and there are resources available to help you every step of the way.
To speak with a specialist about your options, call 1-800-ADOPTION or fill out our form to get the support you deserve.
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