Pregnant and Scared: Your Options

Bringing a child into this world is a journey filled with anticipation, excitement, and sometimes fears. If you find yourself pregnant and scared, know that you are not alone. Many women experience a whirlwind of emotions when faced with the prospect of parenting, and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed.

If you find yourself in a situation where parenting may not seem like an option, know that there are other paths you can take that can still provide your baby with a life filled with love and opportunity.

To explore the possibility of adoption, contact us online now or call us at 1-800-ADOPTION to speak with a specialist.

I’m Pregnant and Scared [Understanding Your Fears]

There are many emotions that come with pregnancy, especially if it was unplanned. You probably have a lot of thoughts going through your head, and are overwhelmed with the idea of parenting.

Taking the time to breathe and consider your options can help you find the best path to move forward. You’re not alone and it’s normal to experience a range of fears as you embark on the life-changing journey of pregnancy. Below are some of the most common fears women like you have when they’re pregnant and scared to be a mom.

• Fear of Childbirth: The idea of giving birth can be daunting, filled with uncertainties and concerns about pain, complications, and the unknown. It's natural to feel anxious about this significant event in your life.

• Fear of Parenting: Becoming a mom and taking on the responsibility of raising a child can feel like an enormous weight on your shoulders. You may worry about your ability to nurture and provide for your little one, especially if you're facing financial challenges.

• Financial Concerns: Finances are a common source of worry for expectant mothers. The thought of supporting a child can be overwhelming, especially if you're already struggling to make ends meet. It's essential to explore your options and understand the resources available to you.

• Lifestyle Changes: The thought of how your life will change after having a baby can be intimidating. You may worry about sacrificing your hobbies, social life, or even your relationship with your partner. It's normal to mourn the loss of your current lifestyle while preparing for the new chapter ahead.

Seeking Support When You’re Pregnant and Scared

If you’re a birth mother experiencing emotional struggles, know that you’re not alone. It’s completely normal to feel conflicted, especially if your circumstances have changed since your pregnancy began. Whether you’re considering adoption or have already chosen it, there are supportive resources available. 

We offer a free 24-hour adoption hotline you can call whenever you need. Options counseling can provide an unbiased listening ear, positive reinforcement for responsible decisions, multiple perspectives and a safe space to express yourself. Call 1-800-ADOPTION to get support now.

Pregnant and Scared: Exploring Your Options in Iowa

Adoption

Adoption can help you take back control of your life when it feels like things are spinning out of control. Through adoption, you can provide your child with a stable, loving home while receiving support and financial assistance every step of the way. This path lets you pave the way toward a brighter future for yourself and your baby, knowing that they’ll always be loved by a family picked by you.

If financial concerns weigh heavily on your mind, adoption is 100% free of cost for you as the birth mother. With adoption, you won’t ever have to worry about saying goodbye to your baby. We only work with open adoption families who are ready to share updates and milestones with you at however level you’re comfortable with for years to come.

To start your search for the right family, check out our waiting families page.

Abortion

In Iowa, like in many states, abortion can be a legal and accessible option when you’re pregnant and scared about parenting. However, it's important to understand the laws and restrictions surrounding abortion in Iowa and how they may impact your decision-making process.

The cost of an abortion can also vary based on the stage of pregnancy, ranging from $500 to $2,000. Additional charges may apply for services such as ultrasounds, the "morning-after" pill, birth control, and any necessary medical treatment, particularly if complications arise.

Our Promise to You

No matter what fears or uncertainties you may be facing, know that we will always be there to support you. Whether it's through 24/7 counseling, financial assistance or helping you find the right family for your baby, you don't have to face this journey alone. Your feelings are valid, and we’re committed to helping you through this difficult time.

To speak with a specialist about your options, contact us online now or call us at 1-800-ADOPTION.

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